Loser

I have been using this word pretty often recently so decided to write something about it. What is the definition of "loser"? This is one of the definition in the dictionary: one who loses.

I have a few definitions of my own:
01) One who never keep promises
02) One who always try to get all the attention
03) One who runs away from problems
04) One who avoids the person he/she has let down
05) One who always cannot make his/her own decisions
06) One who refused to admit that he/she lost
07) One who makes use of friends for their own benefits
08) One who betrays
09) One who is so damn afraid of their spouse/partner
10) One who uses violence on their spouse/partner
11) One who refuse to admit to their mistakes
12) One who thinks too highly of themselves
13) One who is unkind to people
14) One who hurts others emotionally

I can only think of these at this moment. Will add on if I can think of more.

I am no saint too, there are also times when I feel that I am a loser. Today, I saw a fren on my way home and purposely avoided him. Maybe few months back, I would be very happy when I see him but now things are different. I will try to avoid him so that I won't get hurt again. At that point of time, I feel that I am a loser.

Its ok to be a loser sometimes but don't be one forever. Don't let others keep thinking you are a loser. Never repeat the same mistakes.