Betrayal

Been having some family problems recently cause my mom discovered that my dad has been sending money to Vietnam. He has been visiting Vietnam every few months saying that he is doing business with his fren there but not sure if its true lah. Now my mom suspect he is keeping a mistress there. She quarrelled with him this morning until I got to listen to my iPod to continue my sleep. Anyway I told her that since he is already so old, he should be able to think for himself. If he wanna do such embarrassing things at his age, dun think he will earn respect from his children and grandchildren. I am pretty sick & tired of all these issues at home. Same things happened a few years back when he was fooling around in Cambodia. My mom even threatened him with a knife. I was so worried that I didn't even dare to go home. They were quarrelling everyday. I do not understand why man has to fool around outside when they already have a wife at home. Don't get married if you feel you cannot settle down. I am not saying that woman won't fool around. I have also seen cases where woman cheated on their husband. I have seen too many divorces that I cannot believe in marriage. I feel that marriage is not important so long 2 person are happy together. I have friends who've been together for 7 years, not married and still happy. Marriage is about trust and don't ever betray this trust cause the scar will be there forever. Never let the other party know even if you ever cheated on him/her cause even if he/she do forgive you, he/she will never forget about it.