Friday, June 4, 2010

Nothing is Fair

I've recently realized that nothing is fair in this current society. Especially the treatment for women with pretty looks & women who don't have good looks. It is normal for people to give better treatment when they see pretty ladies. But whose fault is it when you are not born with pretty looks? Are we to blame our parents just because we look normal & don't attract attention or don't get better treatments? Even at work, you tend to get work done easier when you have a pretty face. Colleagues are more willing to help when you are pretty, especially male colleagues. If you are able to talk sweetly, things work better with your pretty face. Among friends, prettier gals tend to get more attention & care from guy friends when going out. Guy friends are always worried that their pretty gal friends will get lost or fall down & ruin their pretty face. To some, so long you got a pretty face means you got a good heart. To me, alot of these are crap. I don't treat handsome guys differently. I only give better treatment to people whom I think deserve such treatment. It means if you are good to me, I am good to you. If you are wicked to me, I let God punish you. However, I will no longer be interested to have such people as friends. I want to only make friends with people with good heart & not good looks. It's a plus factor if my friends are good looking cause I feel proud going out with them. I am also working to have a good heart. Sometimes when people pissed you off, you tend to have wicked thoughts. But it is up to an individual to brush away this kind of thoughts. I hope I can remain a kind girl and my friends are not those who treat people base on looks.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Nothing is Fair

I've recently realized that nothing is fair in this current society. Especially the treatment for women with pretty looks & women who don't have good looks. It is normal for people to give better treatment when they see pretty ladies. But whose fault is it when you are not born with pretty looks? Are we to blame our parents just because we look normal & don't attract attention or don't get better treatments? Even at work, you tend to get work done easier when you have a pretty face. Colleagues are more willing to help when you are pretty, especially male colleagues. If you are able to talk sweetly, things work better with your pretty face. Among friends, prettier gals tend to get more attention & care from guy friends when going out. Guy friends are always worried that their pretty gal friends will get lost or fall down & ruin their pretty face. To some, so long you got a pretty face means you got a good heart. To me, alot of these are crap. I don't treat handsome guys differently. I only give better treatment to people whom I think deserve such treatment. It means if you are good to me, I am good to you. If you are wicked to me, I let God punish you. However, I will no longer be interested to have such people as friends. I want to only make friends with people with good heart & not good looks. It's a plus factor if my friends are good looking cause I feel proud going out with them. I am also working to have a good heart. Sometimes when people pissed you off, you tend to have wicked thoughts. But it is up to an individual to brush away this kind of thoughts. I hope I can remain a kind girl and my friends are not those who treat people base on looks.