Thursday, May 28, 2009

A Second Chance

Most people deserve a 2nd chance to learn from their mistakes. But sometimes it all depends on how serious is the mistake. Some made lots of mistakes but never realize until they fall badly one day. Those are the ones who are always very confident and think highly of themselves. Pride can be one of the major issue that they never realize their wrongs. Even if they knew that they are wrong, they will not admit their fault because of their pride. Sometimes it is also due to their trust in others. When they dun trust people, even if others highlight to them their mistakes, they will not believe. They will continue to think that they are right regardless of what others think. How do you determine if the person deserves a 2nd chance? Well, it all depends on your tolerance level and how close you are with the person. You must also look at how bad is the "damage". If you have been tolerating this person for a long long time and still no improvement, then maybe it's time to give up and move on. This apply in both relationships & friendships. You have think of both the good & bad that they have done over the years and measure whether it's worth it to forgive the person. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

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Thursday, May 28, 2009

A Second Chance

Most people deserve a 2nd chance to learn from their mistakes. But sometimes it all depends on how serious is the mistake. Some made lots of mistakes but never realize until they fall badly one day. Those are the ones who are always very confident and think highly of themselves. Pride can be one of the major issue that they never realize their wrongs. Even if they knew that they are wrong, they will not admit their fault because of their pride. Sometimes it is also due to their trust in others. When they dun trust people, even if others highlight to them their mistakes, they will not believe. They will continue to think that they are right regardless of what others think. How do you determine if the person deserves a 2nd chance? Well, it all depends on your tolerance level and how close you are with the person. You must also look at how bad is the "damage". If you have been tolerating this person for a long long time and still no improvement, then maybe it's time to give up and move on. This apply in both relationships & friendships. You have think of both the good & bad that they have done over the years and measure whether it's worth it to forgive the person. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

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