Problems at home AGAIN

Many of my frens think that I am a happy go lucky person so shouldn't have much problems. Well, they are wrong cause I have a very problematic father. What's his problem? His problem is he likes to fool around. Since young he has always been like that. He has never changed even if he is already a grandfather now. I still remembered about 7 years ago when he started to make frequent trips to Cambodia with his frens. He told us that he was going there to gamble with his frens but my mom started to suspect that he went there to fool around with women. My mom quarrelled with him everyday and even threatened him with a knife. I was then so worried that I would come home seeing dead bodies in the house. There wasn't a day of peace at home. After my mom threatened to kill him, my dad dare not visit Cambodia anymore. His bad habits came back again after few years and this time the destination became Vietnam. His reason was to go there and do business with his frens. His trip can last for about a week. After a few trips, my mom started to suspect him again. As usual, quarrels became a daily activity at home for them. Many times, I asked my mom not to bother about him anymore cause he is old enough to think and he will never changed. She started to take things more easily after some time. Another quarrel started when she found out that he sent money to Vietnam early this year, not sure for what purpose lah. Things got back to normal after she cooled down. Another quarrel happened again in May when we went to Macau with my uncle. They went on a day trip to China state nearby when my mom & me went Hong Kong. They took some photos with this China girl which my dad asked my uncle not to show my mom. My mom got suspicious and quarrelled with him at the airport on our way back. I saw the photos, nothing wrong except in one of the pix when the girl only had a towel wrapped around her. Dun know what they up to. My uncle also didn't have a very good record.

Anyway last week, my dad met my uncle at the coffee shop near our place and he asked him to go Genting with him. My dad came back to tell my mom that they are going there to watch Fei Yu Qing concert but it was already over. My mom got angry and quarrel with him on the day he was going for the trip. He left on Tues and was due to be back on Thurs but by 10pm, he was still not home. Mom tried calling his handphone but it was off. Tried calling my uncle and his phone also not on. He finally came home at about 11pm. Mom suspected that they took plane back. She took his passport to show me and I realize that he went to Cambodia instead of Genting which he told my mom. I was shocked but I dare not tell my mom so had to lie to her also. Told her stamp looks different because he took the plane. I am currently pretty disgusted with my dad cause we all know that lots of men go Cambodia to look for young girls or even young boys to fool around with. I simply cannot understand what he is thinking. At his age, he should know what he should do and what he shouldn't. He has never been really good to my mom since she married him. He was never generous with her. The amount of money he gave her for marketing is also not much. She always have to top it up with her own money and she is not even working. Lucky both my brother & me give her money. He only gives her additional money when she helps him out in his business during the 7th month. Well, the amount he gave is not much anyway. He has always been pretty stingy to the family except for the 2 grandchildren. There are times when he is generous but I can count them with my fingers for the past 31 years of my life. My mom seem pretty upset this time and insist that she wanna ask for divorce. I told her that even if she wanted a divorce, she must still get what she deserves. She should not let him keep everything. I have no objections so long they are happy. They are old enough to decide for themselves. Its not up to me to decide anyway.

I just dun understand why some men cannot behave themselves. They get angry when their partner cheated on them but have they ever think how their partners will feel if they do the same thing. These men are idiots cause they never think with their brains. Lucky there are still good men out there. Hope I can find a good one.