Have you ever wonder how you can stop loving someone??? We do know that sometimes your love for someone just stops after being together for a long time. Maybe you realize that you are no longer suitable or you might have fallen in love with another person. Then how about those love that still stays in your heart even though you are not fated to be with the person? I guess it is very difficult for you to simply "delete" the person from your life. I have some frens include myself who still do silly things for the person we love. That's because we cannot stop ourselves from loving him/her. So long the love still stays within your heart, there is no way you will stay away from the person. You still wanna be able to care for him/her even though you cannot be together. I also realize that the more you love a person, the deeper will be your hatred for him/her if he/she hurt you. Just like someone ever told me: If your friend is angry with you, then they still have feelings for you as a fren. If they simply ignore you, then they probably dun treat you as a fren anymore. Hey, I am not asking you to make your frens angry to see if they still treat you as good frens. I know its tough to forget someone whom you deeply loved. You either learn to convert the love into frienship or hatred. I think by hating the person then can you convince yourself to stay away from him/her. Most people feel that they rather continue as frens if they cannot be with the person. But I think its silly cause you will only hurt yourself more and the person will not even know it. It's really not easy to stop your love for someone. If one day your heart no longer hurts when you think of the sweet memories you had with the person, then I can be sure that you have stop loving the person. I am also trying very hard to achieve this. It takes alot of time to get over it but I am sure time will heal all wounds. You must learn to let go in order to move on. Go love a person who also loves you and look for the happiness you deserve. If you have already found your love, then treasure it. I wish all my frens who have found their love everlasting happiness and may you live happily ever after. Do remember to stay cheerful always.(*o*)
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Thursday, July 10, 2008
How to stop loving someone???
Have you ever wonder how you can stop loving someone??? We do know that sometimes your love for someone just stops after being together for a long time. Maybe you realize that you are no longer suitable or you might have fallen in love with another person. Then how about those love that still stays in your heart even though you are not fated to be with the person? I guess it is very difficult for you to simply "delete" the person from your life. I have some frens include myself who still do silly things for the person we love. That's because we cannot stop ourselves from loving him/her. So long the love still stays within your heart, there is no way you will stay away from the person. You still wanna be able to care for him/her even though you cannot be together. I also realize that the more you love a person, the deeper will be your hatred for him/her if he/she hurt you. Just like someone ever told me: If your friend is angry with you, then they still have feelings for you as a fren. If they simply ignore you, then they probably dun treat you as a fren anymore. Hey, I am not asking you to make your frens angry to see if they still treat you as good frens. I know its tough to forget someone whom you deeply loved. You either learn to convert the love into frienship or hatred. I think by hating the person then can you convince yourself to stay away from him/her. Most people feel that they rather continue as frens if they cannot be with the person. But I think its silly cause you will only hurt yourself more and the person will not even know it. It's really not easy to stop your love for someone. If one day your heart no longer hurts when you think of the sweet memories you had with the person, then I can be sure that you have stop loving the person. I am also trying very hard to achieve this. It takes alot of time to get over it but I am sure time will heal all wounds. You must learn to let go in order to move on. Go love a person who also loves you and look for the happiness you deserve. If you have already found your love, then treasure it. I wish all my frens who have found their love everlasting happiness and may you live happily ever after. Do remember to stay cheerful always.(*o*)
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