Women, What's your Problem?

I seriously do not understand what's wrong with the Singapore women nowadays. What is it that I find is wrong with them? Well, I noticed that alot of women cannot make up their minds when it comes to relationships. I am not sure if it is because they prefer to have more options or they really cannot make up their minds. Why would I say that? That's because I've come across a few "good examples" of such women. Let me share with you these real cases:

Example 1

Guy A falls for Gal B after knowing each other for some time. A started to chase B by dating her out often and showering her with gifts & flowers. A has hinted to B that he likes her but she did not give him a response nor reject him directly. This make A think that he has a chance to be B's boyfriend. One day, B suddenly appear with her boyfriend. B never told A that she was already dating someone. This really upset A as he was not prepared to know about it at all.

Questions: Why B continue to accept expensive gifts & treats from A when she already had someone in mind as her boyfriends? Was B ever interested in A? Why B didn't explain to A personally when she already have a boyfriend?

Example 2

Guy C falls for Gal D who already has a boyfriend Guy E. C decided to try chasing D since she didn't really reject him. They go out occasionally and D even share with C her problems she had with E. C even encourage D to try make things work with her boyfriend. But if her boyfriend is not treating her well, he will always be there for her. Eventually, D told C that she is starting to like him but she cannot leave her boyfriend. Despite knowing that he do not have much chance, C continue to stay by D's side when she needs him. One day. D told C that she broke up with her boyfriend and he thought he had a chance. However, D went back to E after a week. To make things worse, she continue pester C even though C already told her that he had given up hope on her.

Questions: Why can't D choose between C & E? If D already have a boyfriend, how can she fall for another man? Does she treat C as a "spare tyre"?

There were alot of questions when I heard these stories. Maybe I've never been in such a situation where there were more than 1 guy chasing me at the same time. But I do know that there is no way that I can love 2 guys at the same time. Because I will definitely feel guilty as it is not fair to both guys. One should never go into new relationship if your heart still contain feelings for another guy. In this case, I think those who had the courage to ask for a breakup or divorce to be with the person they really love are better than those who chose to keep quiet. Fortunately, the women in both examples are not my friends. If they are, I would have given them a piece of my mind. I cannot tolerate such behaviour. Well, I do hope that if I am in such situations, I can manage better. Last but not the least, I'll like to apologise to friends for using their stories in my blog. I also hope that after reading this post, you will also know how to manage when you are in such sitation whether you are man or woman.