Seriously I am not being pessimistic cause I cannot find a boyfriend. I look at many of friends and I start to wonder why people fall in love? Is it to find a companion to spend the rest of your life with? Have you ever asked yourself why you love your partner? Some people fall in love easily cause they are afraid of being lonely. Some feel that since all my friends are attached, I should be attached too. Another reason is probably because age is catching up and they dun wanna be left alone on the shelf. I am not saying that one cannot fall in love cause it really feels good when you are in love. I only hate the feeling when the passion is gone. That is when you start to see the ugly side of your partner and some ultimately choose to move on. These are the times when you will fall out of love. I wonder if we can choose to only fall in love and not out of love. I guess no one enjoy falling out of love. It takes a long time for you to forget a person compare to time taken to fall for him/her. Well, this is part of life. It is unlikely that the first person you fall for will be the one whom you spend the rest of the life with. There are such cases but it's not common. I always believe that it takes time to find the right one. It will be good if you ultimately find the your Mr/Miss Right. But even if you dun, there are still many other important things in life. Maybe you think that I am saying this in case I cannot find a partner myself. In some way, it is quite true but I also want those who read my blog to feel the same. Don't loose hope just because you cannot find the right one. Enjoy while you are in love and remember only the happy moments. Leave the sad past behind. Like what I always believe: "Live each day, as if there is no tomorrow. Be Happy. Give Thanks."
Live each day, as if there is no tomorrow. Be Happy. Give Thanks. Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is mystery, Today is a GIFT.
Monday, April 6, 2009
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Monday, April 6, 2009
Why People Fall in Love???
Seriously I am not being pessimistic cause I cannot find a boyfriend. I look at many of friends and I start to wonder why people fall in love? Is it to find a companion to spend the rest of your life with? Have you ever asked yourself why you love your partner? Some people fall in love easily cause they are afraid of being lonely. Some feel that since all my friends are attached, I should be attached too. Another reason is probably because age is catching up and they dun wanna be left alone on the shelf. I am not saying that one cannot fall in love cause it really feels good when you are in love. I only hate the feeling when the passion is gone. That is when you start to see the ugly side of your partner and some ultimately choose to move on. These are the times when you will fall out of love. I wonder if we can choose to only fall in love and not out of love. I guess no one enjoy falling out of love. It takes a long time for you to forget a person compare to time taken to fall for him/her. Well, this is part of life. It is unlikely that the first person you fall for will be the one whom you spend the rest of the life with. There are such cases but it's not common. I always believe that it takes time to find the right one. It will be good if you ultimately find the your Mr/Miss Right. But even if you dun, there are still many other important things in life. Maybe you think that I am saying this in case I cannot find a partner myself. In some way, it is quite true but I also want those who read my blog to feel the same. Don't loose hope just because you cannot find the right one. Enjoy while you are in love and remember only the happy moments. Leave the sad past behind. Like what I always believe: "Live each day, as if there is no tomorrow. Be Happy. Give Thanks."
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