I dun know why but it seems like many of my guy frens are pretty childish. For example, a guy fren suddenly decided to show me the speed of his car when I was complimenting another fren's car. His sudden pick up of speed caused me to knock my head and instead of being apologetic, he put the blame on me not putting on my seat belt. To begin with, I didn't even say that his car was not good, I was only trying to tell him how good my fren's car is so there is no need for him to show off his car. I personally think that it was a very childish act of his. You can say that I am being petty but I will definitely think twice before sitting in his car again in future.
Another case would be a fren who fell out with his best fren because he thought his best fren was after the girl he like. He didn't ask his fren and just assume cause the guy was going out frequently with the girl. The girl had a boyfriend and she didn't even say she like either one of these 2 guys. It's up to the girl to decide who she wants to go out with. Why can't he sit down and talk to his best fren to find out the truth instead of just assuming? Even if it's really true that the best fren was also after the girl, then it should be a fair competition between both of them. At the end of the day, it's up to the girl to decide and chose the man she likes. Even if he makes his best fren stay away from the girl, she may not like him. She may even have a bad impression of him since he fell out with best fren because of her. The guys that I've mentioned are all younger than me but I am wondering if those older ones will manage things differently? I think age is not the issue here. It's your mentality. I've got frens who are younger but with mature thinking. Guys, think it's time to grow up and stop all your immature acts. Girls are not going to be impressed with that. What they need is a mature man who can take care of them and not one who behaves like a childish spoilt brat.
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