Recently read my bro YY's blog and saw this write up there. He talked about how men nowadays give in to their girlfriend or wife so much till others feel that they are jus being timid. You can read more about it on the following link:
Today I am not going to talk about whether a man is timid or not. I am going to tell the ladies out there that if your boyfriend or husband gives in to you too much, its not a good sign. I heard about this guy who gives in to his girlfriend alot and he is also very afraid of his girlfriend. I am not sure if this is out of respect or his girlfriend is very fierce by nature. He is such a good man that everyone envy his girlfriend for having such a good boyfriend. No one would expect that this man will cheat behind his girlfriend's back. He is someone who needs to report his whereabouts to his girlfriend but now he can find excuses to meet other women. I wonder if its because of his girlfriend's control that he became like that. I feel that the more you wanna control a person, the more rebellious he/she will become. Respect comes from both parties in a relationship. Dun expect your partner to respect or listen to you all the time but you are not doing the same. Everyone has their own dignity. As a girl, you should always give your partner some respect when you are out with his friends. The last thing your partner need is for his friends to think that he is a girlfriend/wife's slave. If you control your partner all the time, its time to reflect on your own actions before its too late. I am not saying that they will cheat on you but if they do meet someone who can give them the respect they want, then it will be too late to save this relationship. As for the guys out there, if you think you need some respect from your girlfriend/wife, then tell her and dun use this as a reason to cheat.
Remember a relationship is about compromise, communication & respect.
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